30May2021
I didn't want to rant here as I already did it to my hubby yesterday right when I stepped foot at our apartment. 😄 But I just want to share this with people and learn from this.

So I met the shittiest person yesterday. I was to train for waitressing (unannounced) and this person (a waitress that day) and I came at the same time at around 5.50 am. When the cook saw the note that was left that she was to train me, the waitress started to get upset and was about to flip out. So she decided to go inside the kitchen yelling, cursing, and saying she was going to quit. (I could still hear her cos she was screaming). I found out she called her mother on the phone vexing about training someone saying she ain't dealing with this shit and other profanity. Imagine what I felt! I didn't do anything. I admit I was nervous, scared and was about to cry there. I felt like I was traumatized. I was just there cos my hubby's boss said they needed a waitress. I was hesitant at first but I wanted to try it. Then there was this teenager (I heard she'll be 20 y/o) who screamed like I did something hostile and brutal to her. I didn't even touch or talk to her but she acted that way. I was already nervous about trying something new and her action added to it. I needed to understand this teenage tantrum cos she's a teenager. Throwing a fit cos you didn't want to do something is uncalled for especially when at work. She's a teenager and guess what? I was once a teenager too but I wasn't as shitty as her.

I was so thankful for the cook cos she was so nice. Guess what happened next? She walked out. She left! I was dumbfounded. Whatever did I do? I was about to leave too but I thought I was there already. A few minutes passed and her mother (who's also a waitress there) came to work that day. She apologized for the way her daughter acted. Her mother treated me well. Thanks for that.

She said that her daughter has anxiety and she got into an accident. I didn't know when that happened and didn't want to go into details cos it wasn't my business and I'm not nosy. Honestly, I felt bad about it. But that doesn't mean you have to be a shitty person. I understand that she was overwhelmed. No one informed her about it. If I were in her place, I would be surprised to train someone too. Is throwing a fit/tantrum necessary? I would understand if she was grumpy about it. She should have told me that she didn't want to train someone. I know training someone is a hassle. She could have handled the situation if not well but fine and in a professional way. She chose to handle it rudely. I found out she's taking up nursing and I thought, uh oh, good luck girl! With an attitude like that, good luck! 😬

I, too, have a short temper. You don't want to deal with me when I'm mad. But I try to control it at all times. There may be times that I get so grumpy and won't talk to people but it's my way of handling it. I'd rather stay quiet and be alone than throw hurtful words. I can talk about something later after my mind isn't clouded with rage anymore.

Whether it's a teenage tantrum, anxiety, or any other probable cause, you're still a shitty person. I'm not judging you or anything but you're a shitty person. Remember that! Let this incident teach you, girl! Remind yourself to calm down next time. I know you're still young but you better watch your mouth!

And oh, your name (yeps, I know your full name cos I looked you up on FB 😄) will be in my notebook so long as I'm breathing! I ain't going to forget ya girl! This incident has taught me things as well. I don't hold grudges but I remember things that I got some learning.

I decided not to take the job cos I ain't dealing with her shit! 🤣

Yuchae Moon